take responsibility
The path outlined by our holy Sages of all generations is not to be strayed from, but within it you must carve your own way. Apply their general rules to your personal situation to solve the problems of your own spiritual life. Only then are you prepared to fight the inner battle, because only then can you make use of the potent words of the wise. Abstract knowledge unpersonalized for your life only leaves you like a soldier without ammunition.
Rabbi Kalonmus Kalman Shapira, the Rebbe of Piazeczna, To Heal the Soul


